tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post5820034264861201463..comments2023-10-30T01:57:37.902-07:00Comments on Butts and Ashes: Happy Freakin Mother's DayMarlahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18000815937078399278noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-22346112830160318192013-05-30T05:12:17.954-07:002013-05-30T05:12:17.954-07:00Well OF COURSE you're sad. OF COURSE you'r... Well OF COURSE you're sad. OF COURSE you're depressed. And of course you're pissed off. And with my way too personal experience with grieving it takes years to go through the worst of it. I think the initial months when we were supposedly going through the stages? I think that whole time we're still in shock. I know I was. It took me a long time. And I still cry a LOT of days. More than anyone knows. There's nothing wrong with you. <br /><br />If you could go around feeling like you always felt, not hurting, not angry, not in turmoil... then I think there would be something wrong with you. <br /><br />Sorry you're human too. I know it sucks. <br /><br />And be mad at Char if you want to. We have to be able to be mad at someone. (sometimes) Why else would God give us annoying people?Tammigirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04000047709047394034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-89028416977684367432013-05-25T16:25:26.325-07:002013-05-25T16:25:26.325-07:00I don't make the blog world very often but whe...I don't make the blog world very often but when I do, I always check to see if you've written. I think of you often and pray for you when God puts you on my heart - which is also often. <br /><br />I remember how I felt when my sister died, but she committed suicide. She didn't have the strength to fight the cancer like Kel did. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I talk to my sister all the time and ask questions that I'll never know the answer to until we meet again. I'm sure we will, just as I'm sure you'll see your precious sister again, too. Just don't make it sooner, rather than later. :)<br /><br />Big cyber hugs to you! Email me sometime if you need a shoulder to lean on.Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09028107053575111027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-52061877669549793542013-05-22T10:15:33.127-07:002013-05-22T10:15:33.127-07:00I know you wrote this last week, but I'm just ...I know you wrote this last week, but I'm just coming to it now. I have only ONE sister. That's it.As much as we are opposites and disagree most of the time, it would be so hard to lose her. I think you should take all the time you need to be however you are right now. Do whatever you have to do. Talk to mediums (Why not? Now I'm kinda interested in this Long Island Channeler), seek counseling, eat, sleep, read, sit...whatever it takes. But I do think it is important to know that people around you really do care about you and that you are important too! You have so much to give through your life and you still have it, so keep giving while you do. Many blessings to you!Katherine Jenkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16732133918969183030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-40606094988897038292013-05-15T18:25:27.797-07:002013-05-15T18:25:27.797-07:00I've been reading and reading but I still don&...I've been reading and reading but I still don't have words.<br /><br />xoxoxoxox jjJoanna Jenkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10836376588710862173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-46235323190519126432013-05-13T15:43:28.617-07:002013-05-13T15:43:28.617-07:00I really, really believe our deceased loved ones c...I really, really believe our deceased loved ones can come to us in our dreams. I think you can tell the difference between when they really do come, and when its just a dream. The dreams are the weird ones. The real experiences are when it feels real. I have personal experience with this.<br />Your sadness sound like depression. Counseling might really help. <br /> Delirioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01564398770468606675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-24619283133549501072013-05-12T22:14:28.893-07:002013-05-12T22:14:28.893-07:00Blessings to you, Marla... you seriously need them...Blessings to you, Marla... you seriously need them. <br /><br />Happy Mother's Day. Now, go hug your kids and then find someone and reach out for some support. Let someone help and comfort you for a change.<br /><br />I'm here if you need to vent. When you're done venting, I'm willing to give you a good, swift kick in your virtual @$$. Snap out of it. It's a good thing there's no guilt trips in heaven, or Kelly would be trippin' at you falling apart like this.<br /><br />(((BIG COMFORTING HUGS)))<br />Ms. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06263882972749791087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-3469333890936484702013-05-12T18:03:28.895-07:002013-05-12T18:03:28.895-07:00Oh Marla - I can't begin to comfort you. I wan...Oh Marla - I can't begin to comfort you. I want to so much. If ever you do want to vent, talk, cry, laugh - here I am. I know millions of others have offered. I am offering as well.Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00778094998010491653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-13600911153320945942013-05-12T14:26:12.216-07:002013-05-12T14:26:12.216-07:00I have a feeling that Char just freaks out differe...I have a feeling that Char just freaks out differently than you do. <br /><br />Maybe cut her some slack? At least until you both get over this -- which just might be the rest of your lives.<br /><br />Seriously Marla, you need to sit down with her and smoke a peace pipe. You need to be in this together.Bruce Coltinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12861316663245952372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9098515874635881752.post-2913264599586702482013-05-12T13:09:20.172-07:002013-05-12T13:09:20.172-07:00hugs.
might be good to have someone to talk to......hugs.<br /><br />might be good to have someone to talk to...isolation can be a slippery slope...<br /><br />and ugh on the suicide as well...so hard...<br /><br />happy mothers day marla...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.com